It’s incredible to think how quickly the days have passed and joined together to form one year but, like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our Japanese lives. As I type this post however, I’m sitting back in Perth on my short break home. It feels incredibly weird to be back after such a whirlwind 365 days, almost as if like it was an apparition. However in saying that, after only 2 days back in Perth I miss Japan terribly and am totally suffering from reverse culture shock. Arguably it has been the best year of my life, full of adventure, fun, work, travel, immense happiness, immense sadness, ups, downs and everything in between. It’s been awesome. Anyhoo, let’s make some subheadings for this post and pick out some of my highlights and lowlights of my time so far…
私は私の一番好きな物 – Most favourite thing I did
This is not a particularly hard thing for me to think about. In November, I completed my first marathon, admittedly not actually a marathon – just 10km, in Horado, Seki City. It was extremely satisfying for me to complete it and to prove to myself that I could do something like this. It was also a great thing to do since it transformed just a simple exercise that I’d do once or twice a week into more of a hobby. I was proud of my time, in spite of some physical pain that I was in and proud of my place. (more on the race in my earlier post ‘Now I’m weaving a hundred words…‘). The Saturday before I left on my trip back home to Australia, I did another race, this time only 7km in one of my home cities – Yamagata. Admittedly it was a small field but I was happy with my 6th place, though I wished my time of 29mins 30secs could have been quicker, but seeing about 50 of my students did keep me motivated and even without the magic of my first, or even my home marathon, I still hope to do more and improve.
私は私の一番嫌い物 – Most hated thing I did
Not something I particularly wish to share with the world… but I’m learning from it and it’s making me a stronger person. It’s only through our mistakes that we grow and this is something I am attempting to do. And hoping I will never do again
日本の一番好きな物 – Most favourite thing about Japan
The people. After only two days back in Australia, I’ve become more aware of how kind, courteous and well mannered the Japanese people are. In contrast, I’ve already found Australians to be rude, stupid, arrogant and definitely deserving of the 2nd fattest nation in the world title. While some of what I like about Japan is down to ‘tatemae’ (the outward appearance, and always agreeing and consensus building) ,it can be hard as a foreigner to work out what the true feelings of the Japanese are and to truly believe that what they are saying is what they believe or just the public face they show. However, in any case, it’s something I think ‘western’ nations can take on board.
日本についての私の少なくとも好きな物 – My least favourite thing about Japan
As I have mentioned in many previous posts, my experiences of Japanese roads and Japanese drivers has not been good. While in some ways I can understand that the roads are necessarily not as wide as Australia due to the size of the country, still, major roads should be easily wide enough for a car and a truck to pass through with no problems. The distractions available to Japanese drivers also is something the somewhat non-existant authorities should be looking at and the sometimes scary ways in which drivers often run red lights with little disregard has probably caused much harm to my heart and knocked a few years off my life. I admit that I am an aggressive driver, however after the first few months where my Australian driving mentality somewhat still prevailed in Japan (‘Roadrage Ben’ was my nickname after Golden Week), I’ve become somewhat more cautious and my yelling at silly drivers has just become a quiet muttering…
私はオーストラリアの見逃している何 – What I have missed about Australia
Coming from the coast of Australia and living in the centre of Japan, I have missed the beaches of Australia. I know I mentioned this as one of the things I knew I would miss before coming to Japan and that has been very true. I’ve seen many oceans and seas around the world and in spite of my less than glowing thoughts about Perth, the one thing it does have is the world’s best beaches. It’s been something, especially with the change of seasons and having a snowy winter, that I have been missing. Hopefully tomorrow I will enjoy the golden sand and warm weather.
私がオーストラリアについて欠席していないもの – Things I haven’t missed about Australia
What I haven’t missed about Australia is the feeling that I have not been moving forward in my life. In Japan I feel like I’ve accomplished something in the past 12 months, not only in my private life but in my work too. I’m always busy, I’m always happy in what I do. Sure I’m usually exhausted on the weekends and there have been times when I haven’t been at my best, but the thank you’ from staff and students at the end of the year has made me feel that not only has the year and Japan been good to me (besides the drivers! =P), but I have been good to Japan. I put this down to idea of always trying to say ‘yes’ to things. Always trying to do things at my schools on weekends when I wasn’t paid for it, going to some of the things my staff has done outside of work, finding new things that interest me and always trying to hang out with different people where possible.
It’s been a charmed year in Japan. I laugh to myself when I think back at how I was so unsure of even coming to Japan, of how I was thinking of only staying for one year when now I find myself extremely excited for the new year to come. My thoughts at the moment lead me to think that I will only stay for one more year, but after the year that has passed, I’m not sure I can say that with any certainty. All I can say is, bring it on! =D Until next time…